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Great for Second Looks or Civil Ceremonies Planning a courthouse ceremony or a fun reception dress change

Formal or black tie optional For very traditional or upscale rehearsal dinners, formal attire may be requested

Long sleeveless faux fur vest/coat on top I have a sleeveless faux sheepskin vest bought in Paris one year, which I especially reserve for this look see here for an example on Instagram

While the formality level can definitely be tweaked depending on the event's venue and vibe, it's best to not get any more casual than khakis, loafers or boat shoes, and a crisp polo

That way, if you cant bother to really dress up, your coat is a total slay all on its own

So what should a woman over 40 wear to a black tie event